Celebrate Your Sexuality & Steam Up Your Sex Life

Opinion by Dr. Eve

As women, our different roles within society often call for us to don many different hats: we successfully sit on the boards of organisations, we chair important meetings, we run households on tight schedules (and budgets), and we conjure up meals that would make Nigella proud.

We are often praised for our resilience, our strength, our capacity, and the huge battles of inequality we have fought and won over the centuries.But what about when it comes to our (ahem…) sexuality?

Are we really allowed to identify and pursue the sex we desire, or are these matters still taboo, even in 2015? No matter what mountains women conquer, what groundbreaking discoveries they make or how successful they are in the workplace, it seems there are still too many double standards prevalent in women’s pursuit of sexual pleasure.

Women Need To Embrace Their Sexuality

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Women shouldn’t feel that they have nobody to talk to or that their sexual pleasure is less important than that of their male partner.

Women need to know that they are allowed to have sexual fantasies – and act on them in a safe and secure environment – and that they are allowed to speak up if something is not as it should be. Thanks to pop-culture, raunchy literature and the tireless efforts of individuals who have fought to break the stereotypes that “a women’s place is in the kitchen”, today’s women definitely have the right to desire, actively contribute to and partake in sexually fulfilling, healthy and mutually satisfying bedroom endeavours.

I think women also need the reassurance that they truly can have everything, including the sex they desire, and have it without being judged. We no longer have to suffer in silence or speak behind closed doors. We have the freedom to seek out sexual health professionals who can guide us in the right direction, plus make use of a product such as Evarmiles Gel, which is a sexual stimulant made specifically for women that just launched in South Africa.

Dr. Eve

By Dr Eve is a well-known South African Sexologist, author and Evarmiles Ambassador.

Since the launch of her new book “Cyber Infidelity: The New Seduction “ , DR MARLENE WASSERMAN, founder of the DR EVE brand, a trusted professional brand representing cutting edge evidence based information , has become positioned as a global expert on Cyber Infidelity and Contemporary Intimacies.

“As a Clinical Sexologist and Couple and Sex Therapist in Private Practice,  I am dedicated to providing public and professional forums In Real Life and online, in which I can provoke & educate adults and young people into critical thinking about their Contemporary Intimacies. ”